Whats been going on...

Ok so I just read Trisha’s newest post and it totally inspired me to put up a new post as more of a journal entry rather than putting some pictures up of what I did last weekend… I love journals and I used to be so good at writing in mine but over the past couple years I have really been slacking at it. SO, being that I am a very open person and have no problem letting everyone know what I am up to, I decided to start typing… First of all, in response to my post a few weeks ago Ladies Put Your Heads Together, I just want to thank everyone haha. When I posted that, I had just gotten out of a relationship with someone that I fell way too hard for, way too fast and things didn’t work out the way I had hoped (or I thought I hoped)… I was sad at first but now I realize that it was meant to be and things couldn’t have worked out better! A couple weeks after the break-up, I had gone on quite a few dates but was feeling a little frustrated and feeling like I was trapped in Moapa… that night I decided that I just need to have fun and take care of myself, enjoy life and know that someone will come along, probably when I least expect it. The very next day I get a call from Danny, I’m sure you all know who Danny is but I won’t say his last name for his own sake haha. Anyways, I knew him from school but he is 3 years older than me so I had never talked to him or anything until he called me that day. We went out on a Thursday and then again on Friday and then the following Sunday... To make a long story short, we have hung out just about every day since that first date and I’m crazy about him! He is so sweet and he has so many good qualities! The other day, he rode in my truck and he could tell that I needed new brake pads so the next day, he called me on his way to Vegas to find out what year my truck was because he wanted to stop and pick me up some brake pads. He also said he could change them for me so yesterday he gave me HIS truck to drive (his truck is WAY nicer than mine and I couldn’t believe that he trusted me to drive it) so I had his truck for the day and he had mine but when he started looking at my truck, he realized that I had let my brake pads go too long and because of that, I needed a new rotor also so he drove all the way to Mesquite (giving me a lecture on the way) to get me a new rotor, came home and switched everything out. Poor guy spent pretty much his whole day fixing my truck for me. He was so sweet about it though and seemed happy to help me out. He came over to my parents’ house for their anniversary party yesterday and my family totally loves him, especially Kyle who is the hardest to impress! Kade (my 4 yr old nephew) gets a little jealous when I bring someone around or when I talk about dating so last night, my family and Danny and I are sitting around at the dinner table and it must have been driving Kade nuts not to know if Danny was just my friend or my boyfriend or what so all the sudden he said really loud and energetic “raise you’re hand if you have a boyfriend!”. I was dying laughing! He wanted to find out one way or another what our status was so he figured that would be a good way to get to the bottom of it haha. So anyways, things are going really good there… we’ll see where it goes. I was telling Emily the other day that I feel like I have really found myself in the past year. I am a totally different person than I used to be! I know who I am and what is important in life, I know what I want and I have total confidence in myself. Being in Young Womens has helped me so much and made me so much stronger! I have grown to love the girls so much and knowing that I have to be an example to them and that they look up to me just means so much and totally keeps me in line! I love my life and I am so happy that I have been able to grow and learn who I really am! This post is kind of random and very long but I just wanted to share what is new with me and express some of my feelings… thanks for reading J

11 comments:

ShEiLa said...

very delightful
and insightful post.

thanks for letting us share
in a small part of your life.

I know that you do not know me that well... but the best part of blogging for me is the real stuff.

ToOdLeS.ShEiLa

emily said...

yay jess i'm glad you posted that! i need to be more journally on my blog. he is a good guy, even though i knew the whole story i was still reading it like....aahhh, how sweet! gotta love gives who can fix stuff!

Lauren said...

You are a babe!
I'm so haapy for you! The Kade part was my favorite ;) And yes, you gotta love guys who cam fix stuff!!

Trisha said...

Oh Jess I am seriously so excited for you:) he sounds like such a great guy:) What a sweetie to fix your truck for you... I must admit the sound of your brakes was pretty bad:) glad he is takin care of you:) you deserve it!! It is so good to see you so happy:) I had a blast last weekend:) We for sure need to do it again!!! Love ya sis:)

Trisha said...

I forgot to comment about Kade ha ha... He is seriously so stinking cute!! The things he comes up with is so funny!! We need to get down there more often... We miss all of you:) I am gonna get Jason more family oriented and able to socialize more ha ha;)

Nate and Felicia said...

Will you send me your email? I thought I left you a message yesterday, but its not on here so maybe i didn't post it? Anyway, I want to add you to my blog so here is mine nktbull66@hotmail. Thanks

Corey and Haley said...

I dont know who Danny is!...tell me! :) he sounds like a friggin sweety though :)

Lindsay said...

great post. i can't wait to meet him.

kade is such a doll!!

marshall memories said...

YAY Jess!!Glad your happy and things are going so great!! You deserve it!! He seems perfect and they are such a fun family!! Hope all is going well!

The Good Ol Days said...

Okay so you know I need to know who Danny is? Do I know him? if he's three years older hmmm? I guess I'll ask you at bonkos:) This guy sounds like a keeper, worried about your safety on the road, and a family man! Right on!

Collin & Breena said...

Hey girl! I like the idea of a journal to! It's fun to read what people write and what they are up to! I am so happy for you Jess. You are such an awesome girl and you deserve the best. I am so excited for you and Danny! You will definitely have to keep me posted! love ya!